Advocate for Your Health: How You Can Take Control
Are You Listening to Your Body?
When something feels off in your body, do you push through it, hoping it will pass? Or do you stop and advocate for yourself, ensuring you get the care you deserve? I’ve been there. For months, I ignored swelling in my legs and feet, assuming it was something minor. But when the symptoms persisted, I realized I needed to push for answers.
Too often, we trust medical professionals to have all the answers, but you are the expert of your own body. No one will advocate for your health like you can.
Why You Must Be Your Own Biggest Advocate
If you’ve ever felt dismissed or unheard by a doctor, you’re not alone. Many people—especially women and people of color—experience medical gaslighting, where their concerns are minimized or symptoms are treated instead of investigated. It’s frustrating, exhausting, and, at times, frightening. When I was prescribed a medication to treat my swelling without a deeper investigation, I knew I had to take matters into my own hands. I pushed for additional tests, saw multiple specialists, and refused to accept vague answers.
You have the power to change the narrative around your health by standing up for yourself and demanding the care you deserve.
How to Take Charge of Your Health
If you’re facing a health challenge, here are some essential steps to ensure you’re actively involved in your own care:
- Ask Questions: Never be afraid to challenge what you’re told. Ask about alternative diagnoses, additional tests, and possible side effects of medications.
- Do Your Research: Understanding potential conditions can help you ask better questions and make informed decisions about your care.
- Seek a Second Opinion: If something doesn’t feel right, find another doctor. Your health is too important to accept uncertainty.
- Track Your Symptoms: Keep a journal of when symptoms appear, what makes them worse, and how they impact your daily life.
- Bring Support: A trusted friend or family member can help ask questions, take notes, and provide emotional support.
- Push for More Testing: If you feel like your concerns aren’t being taken seriously, insist on further tests. It’s better to be proactive than regretful.
Acknowledge the Emotional Toll
Advocating for yourself isn’t just about pushing for answers—it’s about managing the emotional weight of uncertainty. I know how difficult it is to keep showing up for life when you’re overwhelmed by health concerns. Balancing work, family, and your own well-being can feel impossible. But one of the most important lessons I’ve learned is that it’s okay to pause, breathe, and acknowledge your emotions.
Build Your Support System
Who do you turn to when you’re struggling? Being “the strong one” in your circle can be isolating, but no one should have to go through these challenges alone. I had to learn how to lean on my support system, and I encourage you to do the same. Identify the people who truly support you—whether it’s family, friends, or a therapist—and let them be there for you. Asking for help is not a weakness; it’s a necessity.
Celebrate Small Wins
Not every challenge will have immediate answers, but that doesn’t mean progress isn’t being made. Sometimes, a win is simply getting out of bed. Sometimes, it’s making a doctor’s appointment or advocating for the right tests. Throughout my journey, I had to remind myself that even if I didn’t have all the answers, every step forward was still progress.
Acknowledge those victories, no matter how small, because they are steps forward.
Your Health, Your Power
You are in control of setting the tempo for how you handle life’s challenges. While unexpected obstacles may arise, how you respond is within your power. Take time to process, rely on your support system, and when you’re ready, move forward with intention. Your health matters, and you deserve to be heard.
Take Action Today
If you’ve been putting off advocating for your health, let this be the sign to start now. Schedule that appointment, ask those hard questions, and push for answers. What’s one step you can take today to prioritize your health? Drop a comment below and let’s support each other on this journey.
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